The Relationship Test Results
Congrats on taking the first step.
Now you get to review your results and see your relationship score.
The purpose of our Relationship Test?
“You can’t know where you’re going until you know where you’ve been.”
In other words, you can’t know where you’re going if you don’t know where you are now.
You have to know where you’re starting from to know how to get where you want to go.
This test is designed to help you locate your current position so you can accurately and effectively choose your new route to your Spectacular destination.
Out of 20 points.
Already Spectacular! (16-20)
You know what you’re doing and the people around you know it too.
Your relationship is admired. Your spouse is happy, you are happy.
You should be teaching this stuff.
We’re Fine (11-15)
When people ask “how are you?” you say fine or good or that you don’t have anything to complain about.
Your relationship is consistent, no lows, but no real highs either. You think you couldn’t, or shouldn’t, ask for more, for things are good and plenty of people are worse off.
You are happy enough and you think you should be grateful for what you have.
Surviving but not Thriving (6-10)
Some days are good, some days are bad. Your relationship is far from what it used to be. You have a sense of what you or your spouse should be doing and you’re not doing it because you’re tired and you know relationships can’t be in the honeymoon phase forever. This is just how things are. You’re not miserable but you took this test and you feel like something isn’t right.
Drowning and You Know It (0-5)
You’re totally under water and miserable. You don’t know which end is up, you don’t know what to do, or what went wrong but you think about it constantly and you feel like you can’t live like this forever. You may have a sense of what to do but you have no idea where to start. Or you know it’s your spouse who needs to change for this to get better.
You’ve tried so many times to get them to understand but nothing changes. You’re now at the point of considering quitting. You recently googled “how to save my marriage” or “divorce lawyer near me”. You have taken this test which means you care and are looking for a place to get started. It doesn’t have to be in a lawyer’s office.